why squirm

An adult sex education platform committed to promoting healthy sexual communication.

The best foreplay is good communication.

Talking about sex ruins sex.

If you’re talking about it, there is a problem.

Great sex should just happen naturally.

 These are damaging myths about sex. 

Talking about sex can be squirmy. It certainly is for us sometimes! Just like anything else, it becomes more comfortable the more you do it.


Our focus is healthy sexual communication. From casual sex to committed relationships, the ability to express your sexual needs and desires leads to better, more satisfying experiences. 

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what we do

We create entertaining, educational, and erotic content that explores everything from the yikes-so-squirmy to the squirm-so-good, and the vulnerability that ties it all together.




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The sexual communication audio course​

10 days of bite-sized lessons designed to be consumed while you brush your teeth 

why squirm


squirm team  

Kels is a producer, businesswoman, and sex and relationship enthusiast. She never underestimates the power of a good story or a good spreadsheet.


In tandem with a career in project management and marketing, she has been writing, directing, producing and performing for film and theater since 2013.

Kels believes the core of a good business, production, or sexual experience is the same: being attuned to other people and aware of their sweet spots. She’s committed to restoring education to its natural state — enticing. 


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Tess uses her experience as a researcher to establish a data-driven foundation for Squirm. She holds a master's degree from the University of Amsterdam, where she researched the intersection of sex education and pornography.


Tess has organized events featuring sex educators, filmmakers, and academics with the goals of celebrating erotic culture and destigmatizing talking about sex. She is an erotic film enthusiast and is always looking ahead to the next indie porn film festival. 


co-founder, she/her




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