why squirm
Talking about sex ruins sex.
If you’re talking about it, there is a problem.
Great sex should just happen naturally.
These are damaging myths about sex.
Talking about sex can be squirmy. It certainly is for us sometimes!
Just like anything else, it becomes more comfortable the more you do it.
Our focus is healthy sexual communication. From casual sex to committed relationships, the ability to express your sexual needs and desires leads to better, more satisfying experiences.
Sex and relationships are full of squirmy scenarios in which good communication is key.
establishing consent
ensuring safer sex practices
asking to be pleasured a certain way
checking in with your partner(s)
accepting redirection
exploring new desires or kinks
Many of us feel fear and shame around sex, especially when it comes to expressing needs and desires. We don't want to ruin the mood or feel rejected.
It's ok to
have needs
feel awkward
be vulnerable
use humor
look silly
be direct
need more information
ask questions
receive pleasure
No one’s sexuality is wrong. No one is broken. There isn’t one way to have sex or be in a relationship. Investing time, energy, and money in improving your sex life isn't about achieving perfection. It's about cultivating the confidence and skills you need to experience intimacy in the ways that make you feel the most alive.
We look forward to talking with you. After all, talking is what we’re all about.
