sex toy shopping guide for the naughty & nice
The binary of naughty or nice is no more. We can all be a little (or lot) of both.
So, we curated this sweet 'n sexy list of toys 'n treats to inspire some holiday fun.
Psst - when you purchase directly via these links, you will support us + SheBop, Portland's own inclusive, female-owned sex boutique.
Stuff Your Stockings - Gifts under $20
Kinklab Bondage Tape
Have you wanted to try restraints but are intimated by knots? This sexy, shiny bondage tape only sticks to itself, not to hair or skin, making it easy to put on and quick and painless to remove. No need to tie knots — just overlap the ends and press firmly to fasten.
Sportsheets Feather Tickler Wand
Feathers are SO underrated. This one comes in black and red and is perfect for sweet and sensual moments, or for delectable teasing.
Make Me Melt Wax Play Candles
These wax play candles have just a tingle of heat when dripped, creating a burst of sensation upon skin contact and then quickly cooling and hardening. Perfect for titillating BDSM fun.
Hammerfell Armoury Polished Stainless Steel Claw
Want to do some serious scratching? These polished stainless steel claws are filed to a sharp point that can inflict anything from a light scratch to a very intense scrape. Each piece is handmade at HammerFell Armoury, a small metal working shop in Arlington, Washington. The claw bands come in 6 different sizes.
Get a little slippery! H2O is perfect for use with all toys and condoms, and safe for all sexual activity. H2O is not flavored or scented and is non-staining. All Sliquid products are formulated by sensitive women, and will never cause yeast infections or UTIs.
Gifts under $75
Under the Bed Restraint System
Turn any size bed into a place of binding pleasure. Restraint straps quickly fit beneath any mattress or frame without hooks. Restrain your partner's arms or legs from the sides or the top and bottom of the bed. Portable and travel-sized. Includes four cuffs, four 60-inch restraint straps, and one 60-inch connector strap. 10/10 recommend.
Quim Smooth Operator Intimate Serum with CBD
Treat yourself to a feel-good intimate serum! Quim's Smooth Operator is a hemp CBD-infused intimate serum designed to increase blood flow, promote pelvic relaxation, and decrease inflammation and pain.
Not solely for sexual uses, Smooth Operator Intimate Serum can be used to promote pelvic relaxation, decrease pain with penetration, or to promote natural lubrication. It can also be used with menstrual products for potential pain relief. Free of parabens and glycern, it is 100% organic and vegan.
Aslan Silicone Ball Gag
Finally, a ball gag that does not have a nasty rubber taste! This silicone ball gag is just the right density against your teeth, not too hard and not too soft. Comfortable garment leather strap. Made with nickel-plated steel. Ball gag diameter 1.75"
In Her Tube Standard Flogger
Made locally in Portland by In Her Tube, each flogger is unique due to the varied thickness of the innertube rubber! Perfect to punish someone who's been particularly naughty.
njoy Pure Plug
Equally fun for hot bedroom play or to wear all day for secret stimulation, njoy's Pure Plugs truly shine where the sun don't! The Pure Plugs combine a large head with a tapered stem and slim handle for easy retention and long-term comfort. The weighty stainless steel adds a lovely sense of fullness and presence to remind you just how sensitive you really are back there.
Ohnut (Set of 4 Rings)
Ohnut is the first intimate wearable designed to be stackable, allowing you to customize how deep penetration goes. Worn externally at the base of a penetrating partner (ex. shaft or toy), Ohnut compresses down to act as a soft buffer during sex, with a soft and stretchy feel that is cozy for all. Each set comes with 4 linking rings that allow you to make simple adjustments, so you and your partner can not only discover comfort but also what depths feel really good — for both of you.
njoy Pfun Plug
Ergonomically designed to target the prostate, the njoy Pfun Plug delivers firm, controlled massage with its solid stainless steel design. Whether manually controlled, or activated with the user's own anal muscles, the Pfun Plug prods the prostate with precision. Can also be used to stimulate the G-spot!
Gifts under $125
Out of sight, but never out of mind. Experience the ultimate in discreet pleasure with Jive by We-Vibe, a Bluetooth-controlled wearable vibrator. Uniquely contoured and made of silky smooth body-safe silicone, Jive is designed to be worn vaginally and remains comfortable even for extended wear. Its flexible stem bends to form to the outside of your body. Enjoy hands-free play, solo or with your partner with the free We-Connect phone app, which serves as a remote control.
The most advanced cordless massager ever — with playful attachments, responsive technologies, and an ergonomic design that take it way beyond basics. This cordless wand-style vibe is not only rechargeable, made with silky silicone, and completely waterproof, it's also app responsive for long-distance play, AND it comes with two playful attachments for different sensations — one fluttery and focused, the other smooth and stroking.
Get into the ring and discover a whole new world of intimate pleasure with the We-Vibe Pivot. The Pivot is a high-quality cock ring that provides clitoral or testicle stimulation during sex and enhances pleasure for both partners. Soft, stretchy, and comfortable, Pivot is made with silky smooth 100% silicone that is soft and gentle on your body. Pivot fits around the shaft of the penis (not the balls) and offers powerful rumbly vibrations that you can both enjoy hands-free.